Causes of Disobedience in Children
Are your kids
displaying stubbornness and being disobedient lately? Have they been showing
signs of irritation or ill temperament when you ask something of them? Or are
you getting constant NOs right on your face when you tell your kids to do
If you ask about
this being normal, yes it is in a way. It is a part of growing up and happens
with almost every kid. To them, it’s a way to explore their personality and
express their thoughts on a concerned matter, and so should be the way we see
it in. To understand them, we as a parent should try to think their way.
As kids stretch
their perspective and develop a sense of personal independence, it’s normal for
them to fall into petty arguments with their parents concerning their stuff.
This develops their wisdom about the limits of their parents’ control and the
extent of control they hold for themselves. But if this argumentative way
becomes the usual picture of communication between the parent and kid, it could
grow into a major problem.
Aside from the
changes caused by growth, most of the causes regarding this concern come from
the environment that the kids experience at their home or the way of dealing
they learn in their schools. We’re listing five major causes of this problem of
1. Emotional Changes During The Growth Years: Almost every kid goes through a lot of mental
and emotional changes as a part of growing up. During the growth years, a sense
of individuality and personal independence comes to them naturally. As the
thoughts of a kid are free from any bias, the approach they undertake is their
own way of letting their thoughts out.
2. Behavioral Conduct At Their Routine Places: The behavior of
a kid is significantly affected by the environment that they experience at the
places they visit in a routine and the behavior they see the people at those
places display. These places could be parks, temples, a friend’s residence or
even a relative’s house.
3. The Home Environment: Home is the place where a kid spends
most of his day at and whatever happens here has a major influence on the kids’
mind. The kids adapt whatever they see their elders doing, whether it be good
or bad and neither does it take them any time to make it a habit.
4. The Curriculum Followed By The School: The Curriculum, as well as the
conduct followed by your kids’ school has a major effect on your kids’ behavior.
The way that teachers of the school behave in and the mannerism of your kids’
pals also act as a building block of your kids’ character.
5. Gadget Influence: It’s important to keep our kids
updated with this world that’s developing apace but that doesn’t mean that they
should become a slave of Technology. Use of technology in a child’s education
can bring great results but an excess of anything brings destruction.
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